Author: Amber-Leigh

I think all girls are after different things in men. Often one girl might love something about a guy that the next girl would hate! This makes this hard question to answer with one simple truth – but in my opinion, and I am sure most of my girlfriends will agree, is that girls look for men who are assertive and confident in themselves without being big headed, full of themselves and cocky!

Looks have a big part in choosing a man but obviously are not the only thing to consider. It is no good having a hot looking man with a dull personality who isn’t much fun! It’s all about balance. As long as men have great confidence, hot looks, maturity and a personality that fits with that of the girl – it may result in a winning combination.

If you are asking me, I like guys who are hot, mature, confident and fun in much the way I’ve described. When I say mature I don’t mean grandpa like, mature men are a big turn on to girls. By mature I mean not acting childish to try and impress a girl with silly jokes. Mature in my eyes is sensible, but fun at the same time and also not being too serious. The reason mature guys turn on girls I think is because a girl wants to feel safe with a guy, the guy is a protection layer, girls LOVE trust and to know they are safe is a big turn on, it works for me anyway!

One thing that is a BIG TURN OFF is stalking, obsession and being clingy. I am sure all girls will agree with this. I think guys make a big mistake with this one. Most girls love attention, especially from a guy who they have an interest in but girls pick up very easily when a guy is being overly obsessed.

Girls need a bit of space and I don’t think guys realize this. It really puts a girl off when some guys just don’t seem to want to give up even when you say no! If guys know to not get too clingy in the first place, it wouldn’t lead to girls trying to push them away. This reminds me of a time when I went out with a guy as friends, he wanted a relationship but I didn’t, I told him this and he did not understand, he used to stand outside my house at 1.00 am in the morning and plead, he said he would do anything and then licked the dirty road to prove a point! This is NOT the way to impress a girl!

Guys should maintain the right balance between not seeming too old, not seeming too young, not being too nervous, but at the same time not being too over confident without being clingy, but still pay a good amount of attention to the girl, as girls love to be shown they are loved

Article by Amber-Leigh

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