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I never get why so many guys seem to be a bit afraid of some bed time accessories – but apparently according to my wife some are! Not long after we first met she joked about bring her ‘friend’ around to my place one evening. Of course, being a red blooded male my imagination started to run away with me (she has some very attractive friends!). Alas, the images in my head weren’t exactly what she had in mind!

She was (much to my disappointment and dismay) talking about her Rabbit – an item that I suspect, not without some evidence, most thirty something women who have ever watched Sex in the City posses. So, next evening she turns up with her ‘friend’ in her handbag wearing a long coat with nothing beneath it but her sexiest underwear and me, her, and her Rabbit had a rather ‘fulfilling evening’ all round…

It was early days for us at the time and later that evening we got to discussing the ‘friend’. We’d both not long come out of relationships and had both had the ‘I’m out it – time for a younger model’ phase. She was, and still is one of mine…. And she was telling me that between times her younger men had been horrified at the sight of her toy, and how shocked she was that I wasn’t intimidated at the introduction of this ‘third party’ to our sex life. To be honest, I’d never really given it much thought – toys were always a part of it for me – any guy who’s got anything about him is well aware that a little help in the bedroom doesn’t go amiss – there’s not many women who are guaranteed to hit the heights they want 100% of the time based on just our own abilities. It’s simply a biological fact we’re made differently… There’s no shame in it!

That Rabbit ‘died’ a couple of years ago – don’t ask! And she missed it dearly… So, in a moment of hedonism recently I decided to acquire her a replacement as a gift. And, have also got another couple of other items to introduce to her in the coming weeks (which I’ll return to later) from the Eden Fantasies website. Read the rest of this entry »

Is it normal to want a threesome?

A threesome is the world’s favorite fantasy; almost everybody at one time or another has had this fantasy. So the answer to this question is YES, you are absolutely normal wanting a threesome. Once someone asked me if she was a nymphomaniac because she wanted to be involved in a threesome with a couple I told her that the definition I once read said that a nymphomaniac is in the eyes of most people someone who has more sex than you. Sex is something to cherish and enjoy, there is nothing wrong in desiring threesomes.

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..to help you pass the holidays… Anyone for a bit of mud wrestling?

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Your peaceful slumber is interrupted by a masked stranger putting his hand on your mouth as he says, “Just do as I say, and you won’t get hurt.” He pins your hands above your head with one strong arm, and easily rips away your nightgown with his free arm. Fully exposed to him, he takes you quickly and forcefully. Thirty minutes later, you are curled up with your attacker and drifting off to sleep.

Sleeping with your rapist? Hardly. A rape fantasy, or being taken by force, is one of the most popular role playing scenarios for women. Role playing is one of the top fantasies for both men and women, and a little play will go a long way in keeping a relationship fresh and alive.

Men and women have very different preferences when it comes to role playing and these preferences will vary widely from individual to individual. The best way to explore a role playing fantasy is with a partner that you trust and can share your deepest fantasies with. In this situation, you are sure to get the most enjoyment from your scenario.

Typical role playing scenarios include some aspect of an authority figure. For example, a sex fantasy involving an innocent schoolgirl and stern professor, or a doctor and a patient can be very erotic. Adult costumes are available in sex stores, and online to add to the excitement and make the situation more realistic.

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According to a recent article in Playboy here’s their top ten weird fetishes. It’s a bit of an eye opener really! Never ceases to amaze me what what some people get up to  behind closed doors! I don’t even want to start thinking about friends, family and neighbours at this point…

Formicophilia
One of the less lesser known branches of bestiality (or zoophilia as it is sometimes known) is Formicophilia, the practice of deriving sexual pleasure from insects. Yes, insects. Creepy, isn’t it? And crawley. While many people enjoy being lathered in chocolate or whipped cream, the more adventurous among us are indulging in the pleasures of allowing bugs, worms, spiders and all other manner of beasts to crawl over their bodies, especially their genitals. Next time someone suggests you have ants in your pants, you may want to take offence.

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