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Happy New Year to all our regular readers and contributors…

Here’s hoping you haven’t drank to much last night and wound yourself waking up next to something looking like this. If you haven’t – count your lucky stars because you can bet more than a few poor drunken saps have this morning!

..or if you’ve woken up by yourself (again) why not start the year off by registering for free on an on-line dating site like elitemate.com…

Before I dive right into this article, I should warn you. What you are about to read is a heavy combination of personal experience, astute observation, and unrelenting research. This list was more or less something of a personal checklist of mine to use when evaluating a potential new female prospect in my life and it has been extremely good and accurate for my friends and I. What I am trying to say is that if you read this, and notice that your girlfriend or wife rates unfavorably in any category, you might start developing a case of paranoia that would ultimately accelerate the end of your relationship. Or worse yet, actually cause the relationship fail when she is just a little weak in one or two categories.

The way to use this list is as follows: Go through and give each section a score of 1 to 10, 1 being if she is really weak in the category, 10 being if she is really strong in the category. At the end add up your score—anything higher than a 72 and you should feel particularly safe that your girl won’t cheat on you. 54-72 means that she could be thinking about it but probably will not unless the circumstances are extreme, and anything lower than that probably means you have to be careful and evaluate your situation. Anything below a 27 and she has probably already cheated on you a few times. Without further ado, here are the 9 Ways to Tell if A Girl Will Cheat on You. You’ve been warned

9. How Flirty is She?

A lot of women like to flirt. It’s just something that women do—especially if they’re single. It’s how they communicate with men that they find interesting or attractive in hopes of fixing the problem of being single (Even if its only for one night). The problem comes when there is a lot of what girls have come to call “innocent flirting” going on with other guys when she’s out and you can observe it.

Now before we go flipping the jealously switch and being super alert, remember that there is a very clear line and a world of difference between being social and being flirty. You must be very careful not to confuse the two. Let’s say you are at a party with your girlfriend, for example. If she is just being social, she’s probably out talking to lots of people, not being mean or rude to anyone (including guys that hit on her) and in general just meeting people and mingling. Whether she talks to mostly guys or mostly girls, there is nothing wrong with this and over reacting to having an attractive girlfriend who is also a socialite will get you the asshole tag and probably make her want to leave you behind when she goes out or will flat out break up with you.

The things you should look for is if she zero’s in on one guy, allows herself to get isolated by the guy (or initiates the isolation herself), she is constantly getting closer and touching in a full frontal manner (as opposed to from the sides). There are many more signs of over-flirting that can take place that I won’t list here, but whenever you see it happening just ask yourself the following questions:

• Is she like that with most people? (Depending on culture and background, some girls really are just touchy feely. Judge it against her baseline behavior socially)
• If someone came by would it look like those two are connecting on a level deeper than friendship (a sense of objectiveness is incredibly important so you don’t see things through a cloud of jealously)
• If she’s not like that with most people, how much is she touching him? (Above all things else, in bar or at a party or any other social venture where you can observe the flirting, this is usually the key to tell how far she might let the flirting go in any situation)

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I am communicating with somebody from a dating site and we are close to getting out on our opening date. Wherever are the most proficient places for our first date?

The bulk of online daters hold their first date at a café. It is a very instinctive and easy surrounding where you are able to create an immediate departure or stay on for hours depending on how the date advances. So what is the most common spot was for a first date, more importantly “the best spots”. Here are a few more options… Read the rest of this entry »

Single men keep searching for answers on how to attract women. All single men ask this and wish they had the magic answer to the question what is the easiest way to attract women. Here are 3 very simple techniques and answers to the question that will get you started and moving in the right direction.

How you approach a woman will be the first thing that will determine if the she will feel attracted to you. Your approach will vary with the looks and status of the woman you want to approach. A woman who rates as a 9 or 10 will need a completely different approach than a 5, 6, 7, or even an 8. Women with good looks or high status get more attention and compliments in general with women not so attractive or the ones not sharing the same status.

Your approach will determine the kind of attention you get. When approaching more attractive women, treat them like their looks don’t matter at all. You need to make them feel that you don’t care about their looks. Approach a lesser attractive woman and make her feel good about herself she will love you for getting that attention for she is not used to it. Read the rest of this entry »

Have you ever looked at your friends who have long term partners and wondered why you haven’t got that in your life? Do you ever wonder when Mr. or Ms. Right will come along, and what the hold up is? Have you ever thought if perhaps, possibly, you’re doing something that could be keeping them at bay?

Conventional dating and online dating in the new millennium is vastly different, thanks to the internet, however still very much similar as it has always been for singles. Take a look at some of the more common mistakes singles make when starting to date new people. Perhaps you’re making some of these mistakes?

Lets assess your appearance and personal hygiene?
Take some time to get ready for your date. Clean your teeth. Refresh your breath. When you chat with your date, bad breath will surely be a turn off. SHOWER! Men, be sure to use deodorant. Ladies, don’t go overboard on the makeup or perfume. Select a pleasant looking outfit to wear and be sure it is suitable for the date. You wouldn’t wear an Armani suit when on a picnic, and you wouldn’t wear ug boots to the opera.

Make sure you are well mannered?
When singles are dating and trying to chat there are fewer turn-offs than a date who piles their dinner into his or her mouth, or even swears. Females who make snide remarks and chat about others during conversation is in pretty poor taste, and male singles who don’t hold doors open and other basic courtesies will find themselves getting the cold shoulder at the end of the night. “Please,”, “thanks,” and “excuse me” are important phrases to employ; they show your date that you are a respectful person.

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