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If you want to learn how to get girls, the great news is that you can do one even better than that. You can get girls to want to pick you up.

The secret lies in becoming a natural with girls. A ‘natural’ is a guy who can attract almost any girl he interacts with. He can also get girls on dates anytime he pleases. I know that may sound far-fetched, but here’s the reality:

a) Almost all guys are naturally attracted to physically good-looking girls. If a beautiful girl walks into a room, you can bet that all the guys in the room will be sexually attracted to her.

b) Almost all girls are naturally attracted to certain male behaviors and personality traits. If a confident guy walks into a room, regardless of his looks, you can bet that all the girls will feel a certain level of sexual attraction for him. Read the rest of this entry »

They say men lust with their eyes. And what normal, air-breathing, warm-blooded man wouldn’t want a hot woman by his side? Then this average man looks down on his average shirt, average shoes and his average life, sighing in resignation. The truth most men don’t know is that hot women don’t really care what guys look like. There is more to life than just good looks. Want to know what you must be to pick up hot women? Read the rest of this entry »

What a farce Valentines Day is – just another excuse to prise money from our pockets. As you might have guessed – I don’t do Valentines Day – it’s a crock! Difficulty getting into a decent restaurant, paying over the odds for flowers – and the intense pressure so many of both sexes feel to please… And pay! Why do people bother!

Way back when I used to ‘partake’, because I didn’t know better and thought it meant a guaranteed lay, it caused me nothing but trouble. The unwanted card I received from an ex just after I got married, the psycho bitch who thought I should have spent more than I did, and went off her nut because I told her the value she had placed on herself was far from realistic, various arguments… Year in, year out it caused trouble. So I stopped – I stopped period, no cards, no flowers, no meal, no vacation, no nothing. Read the rest of this entry »

What is a girl looking for in a man?

Author: Amber-Leigh

I think all girls are after different things in men. Often one girl might love something about a guy that the next girl would hate! This makes this hard question to answer with one simple truth – but in my opinion, and I am sure most of my girlfriends will agree, is that girls look for men who are assertive and confident in themselves without being big headed, full of themselves and cocky!

Looks have a big part in choosing a man but obviously are not the only thing to consider. It is no good having a hot looking man with a dull personality who isn’t much fun! It’s all about balance. As long as men have great confidence, hot looks, maturity and a personality that fits with that of the girl – it may result in a winning combination.

If you are asking me, I like guys who are hot, mature, confident and fun in much the way I’ve described. When I say mature I don’t mean grandpa like, mature men are a big turn on to girls. By mature I mean not acting childish to try and impress a girl with silly jokes. Mature in my eyes is sensible, but fun at the same time and also not being too serious. The reason mature guys turn on girls I think is because a girl wants to feel safe with a guy, the guy is a protection layer, girls LOVE trust and to know they are safe is a big turn on, it works for me anyway! Read the rest of this entry »

In today’s society, beauty, physical attraction, and sexuality are all commonly misunderstood as some transcendent inevitable fact; falsely interlocking the three makes it seem doubly true that in order to initiate attraction between a man and a woman, both sexes should be beautiful to be sexual.

That of course is not true at all. The definitions of beautiful, attraction, and sexual constantly change to serve the social order, and the connection between the three ideas is a recent invention.

Some psychologists contend that the disparity among the concepts of beauty, attractions, and sexuality is based on the premise that both sexes are inclined to physical or sexual attraction because women are able to view men just as men view women, as subjects for sexual and aesthetic evaluation. Read the rest of this entry »